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  • Ma liberté de choisir qui je veux vraiment dans le cadre d'un shidduch

    DATING FORUM: Shidduch dating after 30

    Older single dating frustration Question I need to get this off my chest and to ask you for advice on what to do if this happens again. A few days ago, I turned down a match sent to me by a shadchan. The guy comes from a frum family, but he wrote on his résumé…

  • Kidoushin

    DATING FORUM:”Body Image Pressure in Shidduchim: When a Chassan Demands His Kallah Lose Weight”

    “Body Image Pressure in Shidduchim: When a Chassan Demands His Kallah Lose Weight” / Question My beautiful daughter is slowly wasting away because the boy she is engaged to keeps pushing her to lose weight. My daughter went from a size 8/10 to a size 2 in just a few months. When the shadchan first redt us the shidduch, we…

  • Re marriage widows

    DATING FORUM:”Why Some Widows Won’t Date Divorced Men: Dating Advice for Second Marriages”

    / “Why Some Widows Won’t Date Divorced Men: Dating Advice for Second Marriages” Question So much has happened I don’t know even know where to begin. I’ll try to keep it short. For many years I was married to a tzaddekes who was taken from me in the prime of her life. Immediately after her passing, my…

  • Advice about dating

    DATING FORUM:”My Boyfriend Comes Home Drunk Every Shabbos — Am I Overreacting? | Dating Advice”

    Question I’ve been dating someone for a while and recently he invited me to spend Shabbat with his family. I thought it was a wonderful opportunity to get to know him better and see his family dynamic. His sister and I are around the same age, so I stayed in her room. Friday night was…

  • first meeting in a shidduch

    DATING FORUM:”Free vs. Paid Singles Events: What’s the Real Difference When Dating for Marriage?”

    Question I’m new to dating for marriage and I need guidance about meeting somebody on my own. A little about myself. I finished law school, passed the bar, and I feel ready to get married now. The matchmaker route is not my thing yet as I would rather meet on my own like my parents…

  • first meeting in a shidduch

    DATING FORUM: “Dine and Dash Dating: What It Really Means When He Skips the Bill”

    / / Question Hi Mrs. Sebrow, I started reading your column when I was in 8th grade and now I have a question about something that happened to me on a date. I went out with a guy and he took me to a lounge. We both ordered Diet Coke. We had a nice conversation…

  • les 10 commandements

    The Ten Commandments of Dating

    By Rabbi Simcha Feuerman, CSW andChaya Feuerman, CSW Psychotherapists Many people have heard of and benefited from Rabbi Avigdor Miller’s “Ten Commandments of Marriage.” Rabbi Avigdor Miller’s commandments focussed on loyalty to one’s spouse, and making every effort to avoid cycles of hurt and resentment. Dating, however is a different story. After all, why be…

  • Rabin rachel bazak

    Special broadcast with Rebbetzin Rahel Bazak

    “Je veux que tu apprennes à devenir un magnet pour les bons garçons ! Ta pensée influe sur les évènements et sur ce qui t’arrive dans les chidoukhim. Si tu penses qu’il y a des bons garçons, des princes, c’est exactement ce qui va t’arriver! Ta pensée doit être toujours POSITIVE, oui il y a…