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ABOUT US
Bayit Shalem is an interactive, associative, charitable platform for chidoukhim from 18 to 99 years old.
Our association BAYIT SHALEM now has a website which brings together our chadkhanim and our marriage candidates.
BAYIT SHALEM: Interactive Platform for Matchmaking (Shidduchim)
BAYIT SHALEM is an interactive, non profit, and charitable platform dedicated to matchmaking for individuals aged 18 to 99. Whether single, never married, divorced, widowed, with or without children, our platform is designed for members of the Jewish faith who wish to marry according to Orthodox traditions, regardless of their level of religious observance.
Our association now offers a website that connects our matchmakers (Chadkhanim) with marriage candidates in French, English, and Hebrew. Simply select your preferred language by clicking the appropriate flag on the homepage.
Personalized Matchmaking Support
Each registered user is assigned a personal Chadkhan/Coach, accessible via the “My Chadkhan” tab in their personal dashboard. Users can also search for profiles independently.
Users have the option to make their profile visible or invisible (see the FAQ for details) while retaining full access to the platform’s features.
When a user is engaged in a shidduch (matchmaking process), access to the global search function is temporarily disabled until the shidduch is concluded—either leading to engagement or a return to searching for a new match.
Users can also mark themselves as unavailable if they are pursuing a shidduch outside the platform. This allows them to return later or take a break as needed.
Free and Paid Membership Options
Our platform offers FREE and PAID membership modes:
- Free Mode:
- Receive essential profile details via email when you are requested for a shidduch.
- To respond to these requests, you will need to switch to the paid mode.
- Paid Mode:
- Annual subscription fee of €50 (includes a tax receipt).
- Select profiles independently and send shidduch requests to candidates of your choice.
- Respond to shidduch requests from others.
- Enjoy the support of a personal Chadkhan/Coach assigned to you on the platform.
This subscription is valid for one year and provides comprehensive matchmaking support.
Our Coaches
Our dedicated Chadkhanim and Coaches:
- Work with unique candidates they personally know.
- Provide individualized guidance and make confidential suggestions, including matches outside the platform.
- Help facilitate quality introductions and marriages while saving you valuable time.
How to Make the Most of Your Coach
Contact your Coach and introduce yourself through a voice note or schedule a video call. Building a strong relationship with your Coach enhances your shidduch search.
When your Coach knows you better, they can:
- Make shidduch requests on your behalf.
- Accept or decline requests on your behalf.
- Provide you with all the relevant information to help you make an informed decision.
Don’t hesitate to share openly with your Coach, as their goal is to assist you in finding the right match.
Halachic Adherence
BAYIT SHALEM adheres to Halacha. Therefore, regardless of whether you are using the free or paid mode, upon your engagement, a gratitude contribution is required by the association. Please refer to the General Terms and Conditions and the FAQ for details.
I'M LOOKING FOR A SHIDUH
A shiduh is a meeting with a view to marriage. A shadkan is a matchmaker.
The Shiduh works in a radically different way from the meetings that take place in the non-religious world: well-meaning people basically provide us with objective information about the marriage candidate. We are given, even before meeting him/her, to know if our paths and our aspirations correspond. The two protagonists share the common goal of getting married and do not aspire to casual encounters.


I AM A SHADHAN
A shadhan is a matchmaker. The young man and the young woman are put into contact in the majority of cases through him (shadhanit if it is a woman). They meet several times to get to know each other, to see if they like each other, if they share the same desire to build a Jewish home together. If after several meetings the young people like each other, they consider marriage.
We invite all shadhanim who want to give a little of their time to help singles to register on our platform and be part of this wonderful chain of mutual aid which allows us to create the Jewish homes of tomorrow. Each of them takes care of the singles they know personally.
WE ARE TALKING ABOUT US IN THE PRESS
After several years of organizing shiduhim via WhatsApp groups, Bayit Shalem platform of shiduhim is born online.

TRUST IN US
BS”D
Roch Hodesh Iyar 5783
We are very happy to welcome you to our website.
This site was designed as a simple networking tool, which gives users the opportunity to choose for themselves a potential shiduh and/or get help from a caring person, to find the “right fit”.
Thank you to all those who have trusted us over the past ten years, to help them find their zivug agun, to our network of shadhaniot and shadhanim around the world, for this wonderful collaboration as well as to each donor who allowed this project to succeed.
May our association allow even more happy marriages within the Jewish people and give birth to new generations in perfect homes, in satisfaction and fullness.
והשמעינו קול ששון וקול שמחה
The BAYIT SHALEM team
OUR EXPERTISE
Bayit Shalem offers:
💜 An international network of profiles and “resource” people
💜 Secure browsing
💜 Verified applications, motivated to marry according to Jewish law
💜 Visible or invisible profile, it’s up to you
💜 Dedicated, caring, intuitive, experienced and competent chadkhanim/coaches.
💜 Help from the coach on demand
💜 A proposal for a personalized shiduh at the initiative of the shadhan when he knows you better.
💜 An associative and cooperative spirit at your service
💜 Respect for Halaha
💜 Bayit Shalem has received the blessings of several great Rabbanims, from all backgrounds combined.


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SPONSORSHIP OF BAYIT SHALEM
Kvod Harav Shaoul Sillam ,
Rosh Yeshivat Daat Menahem,
Habad french speakers, Jérusalem
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