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A shidduch is a meeting with the clear intention of marriage.
The shidduch process works in a fundamentally different way from casual or non-targeted dating. Trusted, well-intentioned people provide objective information about the potential marriage candidate from the very beginning. Even before meeting, it becomes possible to understand whether backgrounds, values, life paths, and long-term aspirations truly align.
Both individuals share the same goal: to get married and build a meaningful, lasting relationship—never casual or short-term encounters.
Bayit Shalem is open to Jewish singles, men and women of all ages, who are looking for a serious relationship focused on marriage.
Use the platform’s selection criteria to identify compatible matches, send up to three requests per day, and proceed only after mutual acceptance.
After mutual acceptance, complete profiles are shared, references may be contacted, and the shidduch process officially begins.
Visible profile: Your photo is visible, and your personal information is shared only after mutual acceptance.
Invisible profile: All information remains confidential, and contact is handled exclusively through your shadchan.
Your personal informations never appear on the platform publicly
Yes. A mandatory gratitude contribution is required upon engagement. The amount is variable and adjusted to each person’s financial capacity, in accordance with the association’s guidelines.
Upon the announcement of the engagement, both fiancés are required to pay a gratitude contribution of €770 to our association via the HelloAsso link provided: https://www.helloasso.com/associations/bayit-shalem, in accordance with our Terms and Conditions (CGU).
Jewish law requires anyone seeking a shidduch to express gratitude to those who helped make the marriage possible, traditionally by offering a gift—specifically a monetary contribution. References on this subject are provided below.
https://din.org.il/2011/02/09/%D7%93%D7%9E%D7%99-%D7%A9%D7%93%D7%9B%D7%A0%D7%95%D7%AA/
Yes. A shidduch can be declined or ended at any time from your personal account.
No. Your last name and contact details are never displayed, regardless of your profile type.
Your shadchan guides you throughout the shidduch process, proposes compatible matches, organizes workshops, and supports you on your path toward a serious, marriage-minded Jewish relationship.
No. As long as a shidduch is active and has not been closed, it is not possible to start another one.
Yes. Bayit Shalem regularly offers workshops, held online via Zoom or in person, led by professional coaches. These events are featured on the homepage.
The annual membership fee is €50, payable via HelloAsso.
Yes. A mandatory gratitude contribution is required upon engagement. The amount is variable and adjusted to each person’s financial capacity, in accordance with the association’s guidelines.
Upon the announcement of the engagement, both fiancés are required to pay a gratitude contribution of €770 to our association via the HelloAsso link provided: https://www.helloasso.com/associations/bayit-shalem, in accordance with our Terms and Conditions (CGU).
Jewish law requires anyone seeking a shidduch to express gratitude to those who helped make the marriage possible, traditionally by offering a gift—specifically a monetary contribution. References on this subject are provided below.
https://din.org.il/2011/02/09/%D7%93%D7%9E%D7%99-%D7%A9%D7%93%D7%9B%D7%A0%D7%95%D7%AA/
Yes. In cases of duly justified modest income, the contribution may be adjusted upon request to the administrator.
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